Saturday, February 21, 2015

Goodbye Rwanda :..-(

We said our goodbyes tonight and were very thankful for our wonderful hosts who took very good care of us all week. Jeremiah, Guillaume and Innocent once again were awesome! 

It was an amazing week with so so many blessings and such a great group. We are very thankful to all of you back home that made this possible and to all of those that gave us donations. We were able to bless so many in Rwanda and the Congo. We look forward to greeting you when we arrive back.

God Bless each one of you and we are already looking forward to continuing this important ministry and serving Him.




Helena, Kayla, Jeremiah and Kara

Liz, Guillaume, Kayla, Jeremiah and Innocent

Mark heads up the stairs in Kigalo ... sad to go but we'll be happy to see everyone back home.

Murabeho 

Friday, February 20, 2015

Center for young handicapped children in Gahanga

We visited this center that supports severely handicapped children. It is run by nuns who care for over 30 children and young adults. We brought supplies (books, clothes and medical supplies) and a monetary donation for the center.

What a blessing we received through these beautiful children and the women that serve there. 

Pastor John presenting a bible and cards made by FUMC kids.
Sue presenting clothing and medical supplies.
One of the girls at the center


Taylors and Volpe's singing to the children



The kids with one of the little girls


A smile needs no translation ... we were touched and blessed by their love

Thursday, February 19, 2015

A day of praise and perspective

This post is a little late due to the limited wifi, but we couldn't leave out a wonderful Sunday that we had. We began our Sunday traveling to Gisakura Methodist church. There is a lot of history between the church and their Pastor fidelé and Pastor John. Throughout the year, donations both monetary and items like bibles, clothes, ect are collected from church and community members. Last year they were able to give enough money to put a new roof on the church. We were able to see the results, a roof which looked beautiful and extremely well done. Nothing was wasted.
As we walked up to the church we were greeted with the biggest hugs and smiles from church members.  We exchanged  greetings as far as our Kinjarwanda would take us, but the other words of thanks and joy were felt by all, despite the language barrier. The children greeted us with open arms and lots of hugs, and they reached for our hands as we were led inside to the front of the church to chairs on either side of the alter. The choir welcomed us with beautiful, moving songs of praise, accompanied by a guitar and a young boy playing drums. 

The music had everyone off their feet, and their smiles were contagious. We could not understand the lyrics and were not familiar with the tune, but their faith strengthened our own as they pointed their hands to God and joy just radiated from each person. 
With singing inevitably comes dancing, and the term kicking up the dirt was far from a metaphor here. The floor was a beautiful red clay color, and when there was any movement aside from walking, fine red dust started to rise until it enclosed all who were dancing. The dancing was truly a celebration of the love God has for us all. 
Pastor John and half our group had gone to the Congo to visit another church and bring other donations to an orphanage, hospital, and handicapped home. So in his place his wife spoke about how, "We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us." While holding on to this, worry and stress that often overtakes us fades to the background, making room for us to live in the present and be thankful for all our blessings.
We were also able to present a donation of $700 which would be enough to help put a cement floor on the church. I can only imagine how rain affects the clay floor and how hard it is to keep everything clean. Despite that, the church was beautifully kept, no doubt due to the pride that Rwandans have for their church. I have noticed it also applies to their own homes and possessions and the way they present themselves. Beautiful, modest, and put together.
When we shared the news (through our wonderful friend and translator Jeremiah) there was so much celebration, clapping, music playing, and shouting of amens and alleluias! Rwandan people are so hard working and self sufficient. They were already doing all they could to start the floor and had no idea we would be bringing a donation. They had already gatherered hundreds of big rocks and created drainage systems needed to prepare the floor for the cement, which was the expensive part. We can't wait for them to send pictures as they did with the roof!

About ten minutes before we got to the church, Jeremiah told me that I should also speak, since they had expected us to take up more time than we had planned for. I wish I had time to prepare, but Matthew 17: 20-21 has spoken to my dad and I this trip. He also based his mini sermon around it, and was sharing it with those in the Congo around the same time that morning,so I chose to do the same. "Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain move from here to there and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you." My faith really grew through times of struggle and doubt, when I could feel His loving hand on me, guiding me and molding my heart into who he created me to be. I know I have seen him do what seems to be impossible in Rwanda. The genocide, left a country and people devastated with over a million dead. Many with anger and loss in their hearts, the others who were brainwashed to killing their neighbors and friends were filled with regret and sorrow. God has his hand on this country, and that alone has helped bring forgiveness and healing. They are truly one people, undivided. 50% of Rwandans now have electricity, with plans for 75% in five years. Outsids the big cities, everyone is seen walking to collect water and carrying pounds of food and fertilizer ect on their heads. He also helped us connect and form relationships with the people despite the language barrier, though our faith in the same loving God. 

Below is a picture from a quick visit to the church the day before when the whole congregation was not there, but they still had a choir and a wonderful welcoming party to greet us. You can see the beautiful roof and a need for a permanent foundation.


The later part of the day we visited Kibagora hospital, a missions/church based hospital that primarily receives funding from the government, but is supported, run, and staffed by many missionaries. Dr. Tim Berg and a nurse Stephanie gave us a tour. They are Americans from Texas who live by the hospital in a complex with other missionaries. There was a narrow bumpy road up the hill the hospital is set upon, consisting of multiple one level buildings right next to each other. It was hard to tell who were the patients and who were the family members, as there were people scattered doing their laundry, cooking, and washing off in the outdoor showers. They are able to walk around, and take in the fresh air and vitamin D, some of the best forms of medicine! There were also two to a bed in most wards, maybe three with children.

Patients are responsible for doing all of those things, and a caregiver or family members are required to stay with them to ensure they are taken care of. This is extremely different than American hospitals where there is a hotel feel and patients are confined to their bed, which health care workers know is not always best for patients or staff. In the pediatric ward, there was about a 18 patient to one nurse ratio. And post operative and acutely ill patients in the "ICU" there was a 12 to 1 ratio. Shocking comparison to a 2 to 1 in the ICU and 3-5 to 1 in acute care. Not being required to help with their activities of daily living definitely would make it easier, but I would not have time or resources to do all the things I would want to do, assessments, vitals, daily dressing changes, charting ect. Somehow, it all works out and there are very good outcomes according to the Tim and Stephanie, except for with cancer as there is only one hospital who does chemotherapy in all of Rwanda. They also said there is an acceptance of death with certain things such as non life sustaining birth defects and cancers that are not treatable in Rwanda. It would be just as hard to let a loved one go, but there is also something to be said about accepting death and that they will be with filled with peace and joy with God, free from pain, rather than doing everything possible regardless of the monetary cost and physical side effects. Of course when it is your loved one, your perspective changes, but it was a thought provoking topic.
The medical decisions and treatment for patients are all based upon current studies and knowledge, but the execution completely depends on the resources. Only having X-ray leads to more diagnostic/exploratory surgeries, there are limited laboratory tests, and bandages are used and re-sterilized.
Upon first glance, there would be no similarities to pick up upon from an American hospital, but after spending the afternoon there, the chaos seemed to makes sense.

Compassion Child Visit

We were so fortunate to visit with our sponsored child through Compassion International.  We've sponsored Yvonne for 10 years and this is our 3rd visit to see her, her twin sister Yvette and their grandmother.   We had another great visit with the girls in Kigali.

The gang all together!!

Catching up on the bus ride to the market.  We love these girls!!


At the market buying fabric to make skirts and party pants for all of us.  The girls loved choosing their own fabric and helping us choose ours.  Their grandmother was a wonderful negotiator and got us a good price! 

Another view of the marketplace.  This section was all fabric and household items, but there were other big sections of beans, fruit, anything else you could need.


Helena getting measured for her new skirt.  Yvonne and Yvette's grandmother is a seamstress so we are paying her and her friends to make the clothes for all of us.


Yvonne taking down our measurements for the clothes for her grandmother.


This boy pushed his toy up and down the street while we were being measured.  At closer look it wasn't a toy after all, but an old vacuum cleaner pushed by a stick.



We took them out to lunch and had a great African buffet with fruit smoothies for dessert :)


Layered juice drink: Apple juice on the bottom and strawberry smoothie on top. 


Saying goodbye to the girls


and goodbye to John our CI guide/translator

The bus

So many of our memories revolve around our times together on the bus. It was great to see how quickly everyone, especially the kids bonded as we toured Rwanda. Planned and unplanned adventures along the way and of course our awesome bus driver- Innocent!!










Sustainable Health Enterprises SHE- Centre Marembo

Oh  Thursday, the Taylor and Volpe families left at 5:00 a.m. For Akagera National Park while the Wright and Neil families enjoyed another few hours of sleep!  Tim and Linda Berg met at Steptown en route back to Kibogora Hospital so it was lovely to be able to catch up with them over breakfast before heading out with..,KARA!!

Kara, Ryan. Lindsay and I had a full day of fun.  I finally got to see where Kara lives and works, which was great.  The neighborhood she is in is beautiful; within easy walking distance of her work, several small shops, and even a dog park!  Before seeing Kara's part of Kigali, though, we first needed to visit a few locations: SHE and Centre Marembo,.  

SHE is an organization started by a group of women with some serious brain power: one is an MIT graduate, three are from Harvard.  They were aware of the issue of girls missing school so wanted to find a way to create locally made, inexpensive sanitary pads. With some trial and error they've come up with a product made with discarded banana fiber and are hoping to sell to schools and churches for distribution.  The exciting thing about SHE is if all goes well, this business could be expanded, providing more opportunity for education but also providing jobs.  Kara Ryan Lindsay and I met with the director Yvonne, the marketing person, business development person and finance guy.  Sorry, I don't remember their names! After visiting with them and hearing about their business goals we left a donation and headed off to Centre Marembo!

Centre Marembo was great to see. It has moved to a much nicer location that really doesn't compare at all to the previous location thank heavens.  There is a palpable air of sorrow, though and most if not all of these children have suffered horrible abuses. One little five year old named Gesiane was literally tortured by her drug crazed mother.  Little Gesiane was missing the lower portion of three of her four limbs due to severe burns. Her left cheek had a wide circle of very deep-looking scar tissue, yet she still approached us for a hello.  This tiny little girl who has suffered so immensely hasn't given up on people!  After a nice cuddle on my lap, she walked with Lindsay, holding hands.  I wish I had a photo of her but her injuries were so horrific it didn't seem right. To get around, Gesiane puts crocs on backwards on her stumps and could actually move very well. She is scheduled for stump repair and prosthetic fitting this April in Austria.

Every time I come to Rwanda I'm struck both by the brokenness of the human race and by the hope that God gives us.  Over and over we've seen horribly difficult situations but have also seen people of love and integrity working to help.  

I can't remember the actual quote but whenever something bad happened Mr Rogers' mother would tell him, instead of focusing on the bad stuff, to 'look for the helpers'.  We have seen SO MANY helpers in every place we've visited. It has truly been a privilege to be part of this adventure.


Wednesday, February 18, 2015

Fair Child Deaf School

We visited the Fair Children Youth Foundation in Musanze for Deaf children and reconnected with our friends, checked in on a number of projects we had sponsored and brought used laptops that Wendy Scharen was able to obtain as a donation to the school.

We also saw the new chicken coop, brick walls around the coop to keep the chickens safe and the pens for goats that were built with previous donations. They have been using the chicken manure to help their gardens grow. 

They also have added a new water tank, a loom for weaving and quite a few goats. 

As a regular tradition, the children named those of us that were first time visitors and also sang a song praising God and thanking us for our friendship and partnership with the school.

The school hosts deaf children from around the local community and educates them and integrates them into regular schools as quickly as it can get them trained up.


Elie, the school Director introduces our tour


Chicken coops and wall surrounding them were recently built. And chickens!!


Cabbage and potatoes that is fertilized by the chicken manure ... Doing quite well.


Can I bring him home!? Please! A new family member for the Neil's 


Creating clothes and accessories using sewing machines and a new loom.


Students doing a dance that praises God

Max gets his sign language name